Time Out

I am not a licensed therapist, if you need one go there, I am just a very informed person on this topic of politics. Since I can write that, it is Saturday and perfect day to write about time out.

I’m calling the communication I am working on politics, but if this is applied in small relationships, and parenting then abuses, like I wished for, are stopped.

Politics you cannot take a time out when giving a speech, yes you are on stage, hundreds are watching and you say “I need a one hour time out” after explaining something that is abusive to yourself.

Now what is that one hour time out during a fight?

A speech is not a fight, a debate is, so when a politician is having an argument it is called debating. Still cannot take a time out during a political debate. Sad but true, no time outs there. You just cannot, but you take turns with an argument to find a possible solution or an agree to disagree.

Debating is not what happens in smaller homes unless this little thing is adopted, TIME OUT!

Time out is BDSM, I love this concept, and I use it. So the bedroom can be in the living room no sex involved, and I am not going to, okay I am in your child’s bedroom on clean your room day!!! Every child knows clean your room day, if you have a messy child, the child knows a parent some days lets go of the mess, but then one day it happen, “CLEAN YOUR ROOM!” Is shouted at a child, and guess what the child does, nothing. That fight sucks for the child. But if time out is employed, the frustrated parent might get the room clean without verbal abuse or physical violence.

Yes, time out has to be an adult concept for men and women because a child is not born knowing what time out is. And ADULTS have to use this concept in everyday living. Once again I am  not perfect, I am not your judge, I am just a fellow liver on this planet that has issues like you. I have problems using a concept I enjoy too.

Emotions do get in the way of rational thought, but you can recognize when the emotions are happening to say Stop.

So how do you use time out and recognize yourself in the cycle of violence. IN my case other adults told me I was in the cycle of violence, that isn’t fun, but adults helping adults is this blog, so I’m the people who intervened on my behalf now. And I am going to intervene on behalf of the voting men in this country, telling women time out, MEN GAVE US THE VOTE! And we abused them some, it is showing in lack of representation in congress and senate. Yes we have 19% but… I am seeing something, and maybe the men have too…