Tag: Naked

We have MADE PROGRESS WOMAN!!!!!

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The build up is right there, the honeymoon since 1920 is over, 1920 was when men gave the constitutional human right to vote to women… when is the next explosion. I can predict men will explode and a fury of backlash abuse is about to begin. I and other women have mentioned our goals, and might be perceived as abusive.

Men do not want to be perceived as stopping progress, or seen as the abuser. They are not abusing these gentle giants of men. I am seeing this. I really am, and I am hearing from the media outlets what men are saying… how to stop this and gain the goals as partners?

The next explosion is the next woman president but do women have to be abusive to get that goal reached? I do not think we do, because we have worked together the sexes for millennium.

How does the vote happen for a woman president without the explosion, and I am not the national global parent here for the men, I am not putting men in time out for correction and I am especially not spanking all of the men (I only will spank one grown up man), I am just a woman with the same goals as other women, knowing I speak my goals, get listened too, and then hear “We have made progress woman.” In a gentle but annoyed tone.

The glass ceiling is right there, and it is covered in slim of abusing men. I cannot stand by and let that happen, I want the glass cleaned up, not dark black slim on a dirty carpet, I want that glass to be see thru and the oval office right there, taken because of capabilities not taken and broken into because I slapped men in the face calling them ugly idiots. Doesn’t it seem idiotic that you are not voting for the woman because she has abused you? Doesn’t it seem idiotic to not support the abuser? Who the fuck supports a fucking abuser anyway? I don’t, and I do not expect men to support women that abuse them into stuff, including sexual stuff, the men never wanted to do in the first place.

So how do I stop the abuse on men and get them to see capabilities. Even if the person capable is a woman. Right now I am seeing that men have been abused into doing stuff for women, instead of convinced they are learned, capable, gentle, lovers, and… fill in the blank if you know what men really are…

More to come and explore… wise women and beyond… no more abuse. No more abuse. No more abusing the men.

 

Playing It Cool: PIC

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I am so wrong, I am so wrong, I am so wrong.

Yup I’m all wrong.

I am a Woman.

And I am so wrong.

Verbal sexual violence on men doesn’t exist, and per another voice in my noisy brain write about visual sexual violence. Yea I really know about men being visually sexually abused. I am so wrong, I have no clue about visual sexual violence.

A beer belly man watches while a woman is reading a hot man cover on a romance novel. Okay they did change the covers eventually to the boring no fucking hot man on the cover, some of the current covers. I have no clue about this, I am totally bullshitting, I didn’t want to write about this abuse of men with beer belles in the first place or the abuse on skinny men, like Topher Grace.

That was visual sexual abuse of the romance novel industry right? And yes they did change the covers… did I repeat myself? Yes I did, told you I have no clue.

I want voters, and men vote. And the abuse on men has happened to the point of me pointing it out, a nobody with industry issues, those in the industry know my issues already, so I am safe but not safe.

I named this article from a Chris Evans movie, called Playing It Cool, why because it illustrates a man not knowing what falling in love really is, it isn’t exactly a romantic movie, and he’s hot. No I a mean Chris Evans is romance novel cover hot man, did I just abuse my male readers? And I am a self admitted romance novel reader in a previous article. Who else is in it, a man from That 70s Show, how did I get that wish, anyway… Topher Grace. BTW SAME PERSON rings in the head for Topher Grace…

I think the movie is an abuse on men because men know what falling in love is, and what sexual reproduction is, but it, the movie, needs to be made and so far I like the writing of the movie. The writing drew me in after Chris Evans hot body drew me in, did I just abuse Chris Evans?

So visual sexual violence on men is body image abuses, these abuses happen to women too. And Topher Grace is not hot to me, but to other women he is, his skinny body coveted by women who are with Beer Belly fat men happened to him on Thats 70’s show, and the abuses visually on the fat man happens with models at H & M. Did I just abuse Topher Grace by admitting I find Chris Evans more attractive to me… this is truth that happens to men all the time.

Does this affect his vote at the ballot box? I think it does, and that might mean a man judges appearance of the man’s wife or the appearance of woman that is on the ballot, like women look at physical but eventually go for personality. I think that is the truth as well.

I wish to write the truths about visual sexual violence on men and verbal sexual abuses that men endure since birth to find a way to stop this chronic thing that happens, then maybe women and men can lead this country USA and the world as equals. Here’s hoping.

 

 

Verbal sexual abuse endured

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Men endure this daily verbal sexual abuse and this is something on my mind this morning. Verbal sexual abuse that I cannot remove from society.

I do not want to attack the successful business owner, I need jobs. Like everybody else, and I am a bit of a female wage slave myself. I am not a successful business owner, that happened to me, others might not have the same non-success rate. But I am like the 70 year old Babyboomer who worked for Wal-Mart all his life and might get a good pension. And a woman married that man too, like a woman would marry a business owner CEO.

You see the verbal sexual abuse just written down? Don’t you. NO you would not see the emasculation of the man who worked for Wal-mart all his life.

The verbal sexual violence is more on the male Wal-mart employee, than it is on the CEO. But the CEO uses the verbal sexual abuse to build himself up trying to overcome something not able to be over come because this is our society’s language and expectations of men. Yes I do not have an example of a CEO being verbally sexually abused but I will find one… it does exist.

Men are victims of this chronic abuse.

How to say a boys dream come true is to be a life long Wal-mart employee? Okay some men might have that grand dream, and maybe the woman’s dream come true is to marry employee of the month at Wal-mart? Right, with our media going you marry the person who is the art director of GQ. But even the Art Director at GQ magazines masculinity is attacked by assuming his sexual orientation as homo-sexual when he might not be. And that is an abuse we do on men all the time.

People do not assume I am a lesbian all the time, heck I have to come out once in a while and say, “Dad, I’m a lesbian.” Nobody really assumes a woman’s sexuality but they are delighted when they find a woman swings both ways. Maybe that is just media, right.

Men can cut a man down based on assumed ideas all the time on other men. I’ve seen this in the media, and maybe the media has to stop that. Okay, how do you stop emasculating men, when stopping emasculates man? I am running into that thought all the time.

I’m thinking more articles with examples of this chronic abuse will happen on Wise Women and Beyond, so far no solutions but the first examples are written. This will lead to men working more with women on trying for a more peaceful society. NOT a society of fluffy bunny fighters though… a society of strong minded men and women.

 

Recognizing Abusive Communication can lead to finding Male victims Of sexual verbal and written abuse

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I write sex stuff all the time, this started at 15 years old after I read my first romantic novel and got hooked. Was there abusive sex language in that novel? Yes. I know bodice ripper is what I was reading according to some people, I called it romantic novel. But the language, yes I read my first soft porn novel at age 14, there will a parent let a child read what I just wrote I hope not.

This is politics, and politics can only go as far as good non-abusive communication can take it. So if a human woman is taught sexually abusive language toward men from a young age, how do we stop the male victim creation.

The creation of the tough, he shows passion by being angry male stereo type, firmly in the heads of many women planted there by women, is abusive to men. And then my inner bugs speaks up, a man I respect, remember I’m gender Female Woman girl, “What if I want to do that, bodice ripper thing?”

The thoughts are to stop verbal sexual abuse of the Male Man boy, and I am failing miserably. I have these stereo types of men in my head, and I am trying to admit those can be generalizations and abuses of men. This is entrenched in novels that women have purchased in the billions, including me for their sexual enjoyment.

Is anger a good thing to draw upon when you are sexual? I don’t think so.

A sexual assault is about power and control. It has nothing to do with sex, or sexual satisfaction of both people.  The person who does the sexual assault wants power and control over another person.

BDSM is about consent and having consensual talked about sex with a partner, and this can lead to good communication with loads of people outside the bedroom. BDSM does have the power for the submissive because it was spoken about and the couple wanted or group wanted a safe word during sexual intercourse or sex play.

So in recognizing that there is entrenched sexual verbal and written abuse that a man endures, how do I find these victims and then find coping mechanisms for them. So far men have acted out a bit… see there is the female abuser… were men actually acting out as being abusive by not listening to women still wanting the vote??? Of course they are not acting out right? But “acting out” is an abuse term you acted out making me… instantly telling women that men are still the aggressor against helping us get the vote for the first woman president or more women in business.

This is going to be difficult, and this was inspired by Thorn, again a tool to help children get away from sexual abusers. Well, I am happy what happened this weekend lead to this. More to come…

Voyeurism: The media movie industry drives these exploited people

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I am apart of an exploited group of people, and as I’ve written, I am a female voyeur. That means I get pleasure watching people have sex, but that isn’t the only pleasure voyeurs can have. Being a voyeur is not completely sexual.

Watching the evening weather woman, I am so getting pleasure from updrafts of wind pressure readings and temperatures, but that is a form of voyeurism. I get pleasure still and I am a born in the 197-‘s baby. Yes, I can get pleasure from watching The Little Mermaid still, Walt Disney’s animated version. Voyeurism is not fetishism, yes you can watch a person acting out their fetish and get pleasure from that, but you are not doing that fetish nor are you, well maybe sometimes, wanting to have that fetish to be your own.

I did not get any pleasure from watching the hearing Thorn was in, a tool created by Ashton Kutcher to stop sexual abuse permanently, but that is my work. A voyeur could be working on a case and wanting to stop the sex offender, a police office, the voyeur is not the sexual offender, nor is the voyeur encouraging the behavior, actually the opposite the police officer is wishing the behavior away, hoping the person doing the sexual violence starts following gods rules. (which means children were not created for sexual intercourse.)

I have wished sexual abuse away permanently, I hope others do too with me.

The police officer is still acting out non-pleasurable voyeurism. Which is appropriate to catch something the should not be happening in the first place.

I want people to follow the RULES of being voyeurs, and the industry of media and movies needs to keep putting those rules into what they do… and I think they do. Why this is a celebration article, it is okay to admit to what men do, being a voyeur. And by following the already not spoken rules, I feel safe as a woman to admit, I like the Little Mermaid in my 40’s.

Sometimes we all need, men and women to celebrate the non-abusive rules of society. Those that have NEVER REALLY put men down, and acknowledge, “Yea men look.” Why women cannot look, who knows. I just feel safe, that might be because of men, to admit, I’m like you, I look too.

I am not doing what a man might think though, because I am not jumping up and going with somebody saying, “I’m going to disrespect you and force you to do something you don’t want to do at that moment, and maybe never.” Sometimes people have done this to self admitted female voyeurs. It has happened to me about sex, and it isn’t nice. I am watching, I might not be into doing.

The movie industry gets  loads of my money, exploiting my need for pleasure by watching. So does the media. So does the internet. We are a world of voyeurs, and men will admit it. I am a woman leading this, women are like men, we watch too. Celebrate it!!!

 

Voyeurism: Non-abusive communication is about awareness

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I am not perfect with non-abusive communication, and I think no one can be. But a person can be aware of it. I want to write more about women that enjoy voyeurism, and yes male strippers are known, and written about, but the voyeurism of it might not be. So off with opinion and little facts maybe some truth.

Male strippers are not the only forms of voyeurism that women enjoy, and why not just write about me as a known admitted woman into voyeurism.

I am a voyeur.

First there is the female voyeurism of dance, hence the male strippers, but what about the ballet or dancers in a Katie Perry show. Yes, there is no admitted actual sex involved but there are movements that symbolize sexual acts.

Second the voyeurism of a romantic movie. Yes, stupid sound tracks to tell you when to feel sexual toward the players, and these can be rated g movies, still voyeurism.

Third the voyeurism when public displays of affection are happening, this can get a little uncomfortable for myself, and others, but it is a form of voyeurism.

Fourth ANY MOVIE can turn on a voyeur.

Fifth a political speech can be seen as a voyeurism, you are there watching and smiling about a political topic. This is stimulation for some.

I’ll look for more areas I enjoy voyeurism later… like those wine glasses pictured above could be apart of my voyeurism.

FEMALE Voyeurs might not masturbate, men don’t. So why do women assume to be a voyeur you are lurking with your hands in your pants about men, yes there is an assumption there. MEN DO NOT DO THIS, and they engage in the act of VOYEURISM all the time, some not most.

I am guessing that the assumed hand in your pants voyeurism is about CRIMINAL PEEPING TOM STUFF. Sexual abuse.

This I think is good communication, it opens up a world of same person for women and men. BOTH ARE VOYEURS. BOTH SEXES look, getting pleasure from looking and as long as there is no public masturbations or if you know the rules of your home private/public masturbations meaning masturbations at inappropriate home times in a public space. I know everybody knows their home rules right???

I want to emphasis voyeurism is okay, and men do not masturbate or act on thoughts. Women are the same people. I look at women, my preferred. I do look at men. I am a voyeur and I get pleasure from activities that I can be myself. I love going to the movies, I am not sitting there rubbing my self, tits or vaginal area, if I am at a concert and watching dancers, I have seen this on youtube, nobody is acting out sexually, but the dancers on stage. But that is voyeurism.

Non-abusive communication is the goal, and cycle of violence ending is a goal. Men know the rules they set up, and everybody obeys or the police get involved. I like that. Women obey the same rules. This should be a start to get men to vote for women right?

 

 

Polyamory does not mean Sexual Freedom

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This topic is WWAB or Wise Women and Beyond. How to start talking about voting if I cannot get into your home and get you moved to that ballot box in favor of a candidate that might not be you, but has the same ideas you have? I have to describe different voters and voting groups first, in my mind that works.

So this article is exclusively Polyamory, and the slang is Poly, but I don’t like the slang because I am not writing about Polygamy today. Men might not understand what a Polyamory is, from one person so far that is truth. And if one person holds wrong ideas about a CLOSED FAMILY, then what? A group judged as wrong and immoral?

First Monogamy is a closed family. Closed is obvious, if you are in an open relationship you get to see other people, in a monogamy it is closed you decided with communication to only be with that person. In society that is approved and encouraged through religion and government. Taxes state single or head of house hold with the assumption it is a monogamy.

Second Polyamory is a communicative relationship about life. It will include sex in those adult conversations. It does not mean you have the sexual freedom to abuse someone. A polyamory is a loving relationship with healthy sexual behavior that talks about fetishes and BDSM. Some Polyamous family do not do BDSM because of the open communication, not saying BDSM is not open communication, it is just that people are not into that kind of sexual speaking.

Third, again I want to emphasis, it is a closed relationship that is committed to for decades until death for some. This is like a monogamy, according to monogamy people and what they advertise, which Polyamous people know the truth, monogamy is different and might not be into non-abusive communication about everything including sex, hence the divorce rates are still high in monogamies.

Polyamory’s are not SWINGERS. I need to research swingers because I am not one, I was not interested in learning about that group of adults, which are into being with other adults which seems like an open relationship to me.

This is a voting group. And others might not vote for a polyamorous candidate because of one detail, the sex is not NORMAL? Whatever that means, I’m BDSM, not really a fetish person and I will devote an entire article on fetishs later.

But what if a polygamous person is for funding law enforcement to keep sex offenders off the street because of sex offenders trying to use their group to hide real intentions, like sex traffickers. That person would be on the side of Monogamous people right, but because of one difference that man or woman cannot get the vote. Food for thought.

 

Naked and not wanting his opinion

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Do I want men to have power over me?

Seems like a normal women’s rights question, and then you find yourself somewhere kidnapped and sex trafficked because you decided to not make or put forward the power of your man’s words.

Do I want to have man’s opinion have power on me?

Advertisers are men. Men run the Congress and Sentate with 19.4% women elected. Men voted for women to have the vote, because men were in power at the time. Men are the most powerful in the fashion industry for centuries maybe millennium. Men have the power over our bodies sometimes by opinion on how we look to them. We let that opinion have power.

So men have power is established. That means I am going down a stupid road. I’m stupid right, like many women’s rights advocates in the past accept 1920. (1920 August  20 the 19th amendment for vote est.)

Why did women go stupid?

Not every women is sex trafficked. But the lack of listening to a man’s opinion has lost elections for women. I don’t like that.

My nudity on line I have used before and it is stripping time. That is Wise Women and Beyond, naked women in the wilderness not protecting themselves from the elements and wanting just that truth. We are naked. What do we do now, just act like the animal we are, or acknowledge that we want the lies that we are not naked under our thoughts?

Man has power because of his naked body. First he does have more muscles in his abdomen area. That power is used as his opinion. His thoughts are how strong is his abdomen. Then he shows power on how many women he has used his abdomen on. Second his power is in his shoulder area because of his more built abdomen. Men are not like women where our power is in our legs, but our legs are not built for sprinting speed, our power in our legs is to hold balance. These power areas go into the man’s mind. Not that it goes to his head to use his body forcefully, and we do have laws to stop men from using their bodies forcefully on women. Women just do not have the physical body to seem powerful to a man.

Women’s bodies being built differently does not mean we are lacking in the same mind power but a woman needs to find where her power lies. Again the word lies, am I really about to lie about the strength in a woman’s pelvic bone area down to her legs to her feet?

I do not want the lie, but I might find it, again being naked online trying to find the right words to move both men and women to be partners at the voting booth and in business.

What if what I just found is the truth but we tell people, no your lying? The truth about women is our bodies change and extra weight is something that never changes, a baby puts stress on bone below the chest area. I know using what we are as the power for use to assert on men… no I’m lying. Where is the truth?

I do not want a man’s opinion, just give me the votes, I am like you. I have the power, just not centered in my abdomen. Just like a man I want to draw from that power and have my opinion and leadership. Yea right, most of the politicians are still men, most of the advertisers men, most of the world wants power from abs and shoulders, not hips and legs.