I am not perfect with non-abusive communication, and I think no one can be. But a person can be aware of it. I want to write more about women that enjoy voyeurism, and yes male strippers are known, and written about, but the voyeurism of it might not be. So off with opinion and little facts maybe some truth.
Male strippers are not the only forms of voyeurism that women enjoy, and why not just write about me as a known admitted woman into voyeurism.
I am a voyeur.
First there is the female voyeurism of dance, hence the male strippers, but what about the ballet or dancers in a Katie Perry show. Yes, there is no admitted actual sex involved but there are movements that symbolize sexual acts.
Second the voyeurism of a romantic movie. Yes, stupid sound tracks to tell you when to feel sexual toward the players, and these can be rated g movies, still voyeurism.
Third the voyeurism when public displays of affection are happening, this can get a little uncomfortable for myself, and others, but it is a form of voyeurism.
Fourth ANY MOVIE can turn on a voyeur.
Fifth a political speech can be seen as a voyeurism, you are there watching and smiling about a political topic. This is stimulation for some.
I’ll look for more areas I enjoy voyeurism later… like those wine glasses pictured above could be apart of my voyeurism.
FEMALE Voyeurs might not masturbate, men don’t. So why do women assume to be a voyeur you are lurking with your hands in your pants about men, yes there is an assumption there. MEN DO NOT DO THIS, and they engage in the act of VOYEURISM all the time, some not most.
I am guessing that the assumed hand in your pants voyeurism is about CRIMINAL PEEPING TOM STUFF. Sexual abuse.
This I think is good communication, it opens up a world of same person for women and men. BOTH ARE VOYEURS. BOTH SEXES look, getting pleasure from looking and as long as there is no public masturbations or if you know the rules of your home private/public masturbations meaning masturbations at inappropriate home times in a public space. I know everybody knows their home rules right???
I want to emphasis voyeurism is okay, and men do not masturbate or act on thoughts. Women are the same people. I look at women, my preferred. I do look at men. I am a voyeur and I get pleasure from activities that I can be myself. I love going to the movies, I am not sitting there rubbing my self, tits or vaginal area, if I am at a concert and watching dancers, I have seen this on youtube, nobody is acting out sexually, but the dancers on stage. But that is voyeurism.
Non-abusive communication is the goal, and cycle of violence ending is a goal. Men know the rules they set up, and everybody obeys or the police get involved. I like that. Women obey the same rules. This should be a start to get men to vote for women right?
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